Saturday, March 04, 2006

My Farewell Party

Last night, the lab members threw me a small going away party. They made food from scratch which was really tasty- the picture shows Casey helping Nose-san and Mizugaki-sensei fan the rice so it would cool.
It was a nice party and I got to speak with quite a few of the students. Nose-san said a little speech, although it was in Japanese so I had to have Casey translate it for me later. Then it was my turn to give a speech, so I thanked them for making me feel welcome even though I wasn't a lab member. I also said for them to call if they are in America, and we will help them since they have helped us so much. Lastly, I said something in Japanese (because I thought after all of this time I kind of owed them that much) so I said "Anatani oaidekite hontoni yokatta desu" which is supposed to mean "I am happy to know you", if my source tells me correctly. They smiled after I said that so hopefully if it wasn't correct, it at least didn't offend anyone. :) I actually made it through the entire evening without crying, which was unexpected even to me. :)
At the end they gave me flowers, and there was a cute little card attached- see the picture. My favorite thing about it is the drawing- Kanai-san drew a little picture of me with my hat on. :)
So after the party, Casey and I decided to go to the Hummingbird Cafe for a bit since I didn't know if I would get to go there again. I intended to get a picture with William, the Jamacian guy who owns the bar, but he's a smooth talker and when I told him I would be going to America next Friday, he said, "So I'll see you later in the week!" So of course we are going to try to make it back there with a few of the lab members.
Anyway, now I am waiting for Casey to call and let me know when we will leave to go with Hara-san to see 'ume no ki', or plum blossoms. Hopefully it'll be a bit warmer than yesterday... but then again, it's not snowing today, so it looks like an improvement already. Tomorrow it's supposed to be almost 60 degrees, which means I won't have to wear this huge coat! I am excited! I feel like I look like the Stay-Puft Marshmellow woman in it sometimes. Not the most flattering coat I own, that's for sure.
So I will leave one more picture, not only to show you how huge the coat is, but also to show you the convenience store by our apartment building. We go in here almost daily, which is kind of sad sometimes. Last night I wanted to go back in there to get the koala bear biscuits just for sentimental sake... so this is me outside looking pretty strange. :) Fun times in Osaka.

-Ashley

Friday, March 03, 2006

Snow... on March 3rd??

Yes indeed, it snowed again today. I was in the bedroom folding laundry when I noticed it got dark outside. It's been raining off and on this week so it didn't really surprise me, but when I went to the window I was reminded of the times I had sat in our bedroom and watched the snow fall. Suddenly, within even 30 seconds after I thought that, the rain turned to snow! I took some (really bad) video of it. Pictures just don't do it justice- and I still haven't figured out the right setting to capture the snow in mid-air. Soo... yeah. To all of those people who said it doesn't snow in Osaka... I guess global warming is out to change that!
Speaking of GW, the proof to me that it's really happening is because it was 82 degrees in Topeka the other day... what the heck is going on? Normally around this time they are still dealing with the cold. Send some of that our way! I only have a week left and I don't want to remember this place as being so cold... and I want to go out and see some plum blossoms! I think we might be doing that tomorrow.
I should go now... I am going to get ready soon for my farewell party tonight... hoping I can avoid the tears. :)
Picture of the day- the tempura I made last night for dinner. :)

-Ash

Thursday, March 02, 2006

Random sentimental memories...

This picture was taken near the entrance to our apartment building. Everyday when I come home, this motorcycle with "2759" is sitting right here. It turns out that 2759 is also my address back in Topeka, the address I had from the time I was born until I moved away to Columbia. Everytime I see this bike, it reminds me that I'm 'home'. I have been meaning to take a picture of it, and today I finally did.
I have always been the type of person to look at something and try to find a deeper meaning in it. I am not surprised that during my time in Japan, I have also tried to look at things in that way. Normally I notice these things when I'm about to leave... so naturally in my last few weeks in Japan, I have been trying to take time to sit back and observe the world around me again... it's made me realize quite a few things that will always remind me of Japan.
There have been several 'themes' during my stay in Osaka. In the beginning, I saw E.T. everywhere. I was recently in a department store and they played the theme song, which made me laugh at all of the strange instances I have had here.
Another thing I see all the time are random gloves- I really do see these everywhere. I have just recently seen quite a bit more- maybe 2 or 3 each day- and it always makes me smile.
I have run into two people here that I was kind of hoping I wouldn't see again- the guy that talked about eating my dog, and the guy that Gopal almost punched near Ishibashi station. *See picture from that night...who knows why I took a pic of that?* But seeing them again made me laugh... it's like things are coming full-circle in a way.
Today I saw a guy that we met back in December, who was a visiting student from Korea. He's a really nice guy, and always stops to say hi if I run into him at the school. Today I found out he is flying back to Korea tomorrow after being here for a year. He summed up my feelings exactly- he is happy to go home, but sad to leave. I'm glad I got to see him again to say goodbye.
So I guess it probably sounds like I am just reading into all of this, and that is highly possible. Sometimes I am just observant enough to think that I am noticing these little things for a reason. Anytime I'm in America and I see a random glove or anything E.T. related, I will smile and think of Japan. Anytime I see salted ham, I will probably remember my disasterous attempt at cooking for the first time here. It is possible that sometimes I will look at Charley and remember the kid that talked about eating him. Anytime I knit, I will remember that I learned it here. I will also always remember how much fun it was to hang out with Casey so often- we are closer now than we have ever been. Even though it was hard sometimes to be cooped up in this little apartment, I will always be thankful for it because Casey and I have rediscovered why we are together.
So as midnight closes in, and my official 'one week left' mark gets closer, I am glad to take a moment to reflect on my time here. I am happy that I was able to share it with you, and hopefully entertain you a bit in the process. I think I will be starting another blog when I get back home- which will probably be a lot less exciting and have a lot less entries than this one. However, I am glad I was able to do the blog- both because I want to remember my experiences here, and because it was nice therapy for the boredom that goes with being a housewife sometimes. Thanks to those of you (you know who you are) who cared enough to read this and find out what we were up to. I highly encourage everyone to come to Japan at least once in their lives... you won't regret it!
On that note, I will leave you with another photo. This is one of my 'moments of zen'... petting a baby dear at Miyajima.

-Ash

Tuesday, February 28, 2006

Kobe Sweets Harbor


...aka Heaven on Earth for Ashley. :) Today I went to Kobe to visit my friend Natsuki-san. After a nice Japanese lunch, we went to the Sweets Harbor, a large department store-like place with just about every type of dessert you could want. Casey and I had visited once before, but by some miracle I didn't buy anything. Today, though, I bought one of the cutest desserts I have ever seen... it was a small cheesecake in the shape of a dog.
*See picture of Natsuki with my dessert... isn't it cute? I love how they pay so much attention to detail here!
I really enjoyed my time with Natsuki-san... as I always do. I think we realized today that it is the last time we can really spend time together before I go back home. She is going to Thailand next week and will not be back until the 10th, so she is going to try and meet me at the airport to see me off. We both got a little sad today when we were talking about how nice it was to know each other. She is one of the people I will miss most from Japan. She is already talking about visiting us in the US, though, so I hope that will really happen. We share a common love of sugar and I want to treat her to an Applebee's Blondie... I talked about it in detail today and we both got hungry. :) (I know what I'll be wanting soon after I get back!)
Even though I am going to miss so many of the people I have gotten to know here, it will be fun to have penpals around the world. I am going to make it a point to write them actual mail and not so many e-mails. Snail mail is a lost art, I think. I get so excited to receive "real" mail these days... although personal e-mail is exciting, too, but it's nothing like a card or letter that someone has taken time to write. I tried to send letters from Japan to people whenever I could, but I still wish I could have sent more. Communication has been such a blessing to me/us here... I have enjoyed the many phone calls to and from my parents, and getting updates now and again from the Hetricks. We have gotten quite a few cards and letters from relatives, which has been nice. And then there are the e-mails and comments on this blog that have let me know that people are really out there reading this stuff! I'm glad to hear it... it wouldn't be near as fun just writing this for myself!
I'm not sure what will happen to this when I get back to the US. I was thinking of starting an additional blog about my time at home, that way the people in Kansas (or heck, Japan even!) can read what we are up to. It seems like it reassures many people back home that everything is okay. I also like knowing that they are sometimes entertained by my rambling. ;)
Well, speaking of rambling, I'm going to stop now. I wanted to post one more picture... it's not the greatest, but there are some of the cutest little puppies at the pet store near our apartment, and the other day when I passed by, two of them were curled up together, sleeping. I am going to try and get a picture of their faces before I leave, because besides Charley, they are some of the cutest puppies I have seen! Hope you enjoy it... sorry it's not the best pic.

-Ash

Monday, February 27, 2006

Hiroshima... the real trip!


So Casey and I were determined to actually see the parts of Hiroshima that we wanted to see, so Saturday night we decided that we would wake up early on Sunday and make the trip via Shinkonsin. Boy am I glad we did.
First of all, the weather was great! It rained on the way there, but by the time we got to Hiroshima, the clouds were going away and it was starting to warm up. We jumped in a street car and headed for the A-Bomb dome. I really expected it to be somewhere on the outskirts of the city, but there it was- right smack in the middle of downtown. The building itself is a little spooky to look at. The bomb dropped very close to the location of the building, so the metal beams are twisted and bent. They left it there as a reminder... and I'm sure people are reminded every day when they go to their apartment across the street. Not sure if I would be able to live right across from something that is such a bad memory for the country.
After checking out the building, we started walking around the Peace Park. What a beautiful place. It it perfect for strolling around, looking at the various memorial sites, and thinking about what actually happened there. If you visit the memorials and aren't affected by them in some way, then you're probably going to be on the Most Wanted list at some point in your life.
The Children's memorial is very touching, both with the paintings children have made that say "Peace" and "No War!", and also the millions of paper cranes which were made in honor of Sadako, a girl who died of leukemia after being exposed to the radiation of the bomb. I remember reading that story in elementary school right around the time that Lindsey Stephen's family had an exchange student from Japan living with them. She taught us all kinds of origami... including the paper crane, so the Sadako story really sticks with me.
I think the most difficult part for us to see was the Museum... it has a timeline around the bottom of the events leading up to the bombing, and then the rest is dedicated to the people who dealt with the aftermath of the bomb. It was so difficult for me to see some of those images- especially the ones of the burn victims. The museum really doesn't hold back when it comes to the human experience of the bombing... including video accounts and written testimony of the survivors. They definitely play to your emotional side, and anyone that knows me knows that that is the biggest part of me... so I spent over an hour walking around, with what I can imagine was a disgusted, ashamed look on my face. It was sometimes difficult to be an American in that museum, reading about the events leading up to August 6th. Obviously I had nothing to do with the bombing, but a part of me felt so guilty... I understand that Japan did some heinous things before this occurred, but at the same time, the fact that we actually went through with dropping the first nuclear bomb in history, and the fact that all evidence shows that we didn't want to give them any sort of warning at all... basically it just makes me sick. I wasn't around back then so I can't really understand all of the emotions that went on with the situation. All I know is that we started something terrible... and for all of these people hoping for peace on Earth... I just have a feeling that it will never happen.
I hate to be a pessimist, but honestly- if you look around at how many countries have access to nuclear bombs, the number of countries who hate each other, the number of people who will stop at nothing to kill people who are simply not like them... how can we ever put an end to that? The Mayor of Hiroshima sends a telegram of protest to every country that tests nuclear bombs, urging them to stop, and saying that until every nuclear warhead is destroyed, there will never be peace on Earth. Well, I wish you could see the number of telegrams that have been sent since the beginning... they seem to be running out of room to post them. We (the US) have a major part to play in that with all of the testing we do. I really wish I could honestly think about the future of my children and see a world without war, but the world has become so power-hungry that I don't think that will ever happen.
If you know me, you know I don't like getting wrapped up in politics. Normally it's the last thing that I want to talk about. But going to Hiroshima, reading the evidence, and seeing the affect that it had on innocent people... I just can't stand to think that it may only be the beginning. Casey and I think it would be good for all heads of government to have to take a trip to see the museum in Hiroshima. In fact, I wish everyone could see it. It really had an impact on how I think about the world- and especially some of the people that are running our country... and it will make me more aware of who I vote for and what their standpoint is on these issues.

Okay, I'm getting off my high-horse now and I'll tell you about the more pleasant part of the day. After visiting the museum, we obviously wanted to go somewhere and lighten the mood, so we went to eat okonomiyaki (Casey's favorite!)... it was quite tasty. Then we were on our way to Miyajima, the 'floating' Torii out in the water, off the coast of Hiroshima.
The ferry to the other side was neat. The weather was nice also, so we enjoyed the scenery and atmosphere. Normally, the water is high enough so that it looks like the Torii is floating, but I think they were doing some repairs on the No theater nearby, so the water level was low enough that you could walk out to the Torii without getting your feet too wet. We took some interesting pictures of it. Check out the pictures at http://photos.yahoo.com/lilbitfromks, in the album "Japan Trip 12: Hiroshima". We hung out here, buying gifts and taking tons of pictures. There were a bunch of deer around the area as well, so I had to take pictures of them... I am always enthralled with them for some reason. There were quite a few babies around right now and I couldn't stop petting them! They are pretty entertaining creatures. Anyway, I really enjoyed this aspect of the day, mainly because it was so relaxing and I could finally put my mind at ease after filling it with such disturbing images earlier in the day. We stayed at Miyajima for probably 2 hours or more, then we decided to head back toward the Shinkonsin station and get home.
All in all, it was a very rewarding experience, and I am glad that we went out of our way to go back so I could see it for myself. Casey's trip last weekend was quite a bit different- since they were rushed for time, he didn't get to see much of it at all. I am glad we got to take our time at the Peace Park, and then relax at Miyajima afterward.
If you ever get to go to Japan, I highly recommend taking this trip. I'm fairly certain that when you leave, you will be taking a lot more with you than when you arrived.
I guess that's about all for now... hopefully I didn't offend anyone with my political views, but just realize that this is all my opinion.